Quiet

Quiet I said
You move too much
Jumping like a nervous child

Quiet I hissed
I’m not in the mood
I can barely hear over that din

Quiet I plead
I’d much rather dream
Let me finally sleep, o’ restless mind

How to travel

In 2019, fueled by my excitement at having Finally Moved to Europe, I traveled a lot. Perhaps a little too much in retrospect (but also not enough – there’s so many places!). On one such trip, I spied this book at an airport:

How to Travel - book
That blue cover tho

Pshh, I told myself. I already know how to travel, thank you very much. Then I found myself buying it. It’ll make for a nice companion.

It’s a series of thirty essays on themes related to travel. They’re all quite well-written and have a relatability that simultaneously prompts ponderation. Here are some excerpts that I particularly enjoyed:

  • From What Is ‘Exotic’?

    [Exotic] merely means anywhere we yearn to go which we suspect has something important to teach us. […] The exotic is evidence of what is missing in ourselves.

  • From Travel as a Cure for Shyness

    Through travel, you’re freeing yourself from your inhibitions. You’re growing up – and into yourself.

  • From Pretty Cities

    It would be a good deal easier if we could remain in much the same mood wherever we happened to be. It is maddening how vulnerable we are to the coded messages that emanate from buildings.

  • From The Longing to Talk to Strangers

    […] tourism tends to separate us from the inhabitants of the countries we’ve come to visit. They remain shadowy, occasional figures […]

  • From The Little Restaurant

    Almost all of us are, when we travel, in search of this ideal establishment: the little restaurant. […] The place has no anxiety about itself. […] Everything is simple, fresh, yet absolutely remarkable.

  • From In Defence of Crowds

    The grander and more hopeful ambition is to transform our experience of being one of many; to turn the idea of a group from an insult to a virtue: to make belonging as nice as it can be.

  • From Drawing Rather than Taking Photographs

    The really precious things are thought and sight, not pace. […] glory is not at all in going, but in being.

  • And finally, from the apt The Advantages of Staying at Home

    […] the vast labour of getting ourselves physically to a place won’t necessarily get us any closer to the essence of what we’ve been seeking […] in daydreaming of the ideal location, we may have already enjoyed the very best that any place has to offer us.

Distance

And all those times
Why were you thinking
That distant look
Eyes gazing afar
Into another place that

I will never know
I will never know?

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